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| If you got a boyfriend/girlfriend that is addicted to drugs,spend all the money with that,ruin the boths love and personal life, would you stay with him/her? |
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jay88
Joined: 22 Apr 2005
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Location: Sydney, Australia
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 Posted: Thu Jun 09, 2005 11:34 |
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I would drop them like a sack o' shit
Let them go to rehab, don't waste my time
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FRA
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| Posted: Thu Jun 09, 2005 11:59 |
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Mister Mike wrote:
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and FUCK U for calling me that
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Pietro wrote:
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| it starts out small and if you dont stop it when it is small then it grows to be something that will kill you. |
...more or less it's wot i think.
Anyway Mike, did u read the topic?
If you got a boyfriend/girlfriend that is addicted to drugs,spend all the money with that,ruin the boths love and personal life, would you stay with him/her?
i want to say that if my boyfriend was seriously addicted to drugs, i'd be with him forever, tryng to help him ...
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fUnK[iLo]
Joined: 05 Feb 2005
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Location: La Plata, Buenos Aires, Argentina
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| Posted: Thu Jun 09, 2005 20:10 |
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I chose yes! Because it would be very easy to say "oh, you're ruining my life with that, I don't love you anymore"...
If you really love someone you just won't stop loving him/her so quickly and easily (I'm talking about TRUE love, of course). Besides, people who love the addict can help so much! For example, my dad was an alcoholic and a smoker, but he was addict to those things, alcohol and cigarettes, which are like drugs. While they were going out, long before I was born, my mum was told of an embarrassing attitude my dad had had being drunk, so she told him that if he didn't give up drinking alcohol, she would leave him. My dad had to choose between alcohol and my mum, and a few months later they got married  . Then, when I was 4 months old and the doctors told my parents about my heart desease and the surgery I needed to have, my dad promissed to God that if I survived, he'd give up smoking for ever. The surgery was succesful and on the next monday, he smoked the last cigarette of his life, and now he's a clean man
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Rachmaninova
Joined: 01 May 2004
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Location: Space Bright Lights
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| Posted: Thu Jun 09, 2005 20:35 |
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NO NO NO! never!!!! I know how it is ,and NO! 
what kind of person would do that if he/she really loves you? it's also true that when u start is almost impossible to leave it (are whe talking about heroine or cocaine,coz cocaine is far easier to leave......i'm talking about heroine!  )
in all ways i can tell that can broke,couples,families,friendships...and every kind of social relation...and it does! in fact,like when someone is dead....the worst part is for the ones who love that person....so,he/she did what he/she wanted and who suffers is not him/her...if they wanna die...they should take a gun and at least...try not to hurt people who loves them....and if they don't wanna die...what are they doing with that shit? it has no sense,i tought of that maaaany maaaany times,every day...and I just can feel how i get angry little by little till i have to stop thinking of that,but i find no reason....bah,what a super post i'm doing,better if i write a book 
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FRA
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todd_15
Joined: 06 Dec 2004
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Location: byronbay, australia
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| Posted: Thu Jun 09, 2005 21:35 |
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Has anybody seen the basketball diaries... that movie projects pefectally how people get addicted and how hard it is to get off the drugs... but also shows that its not impossable
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EvoV
Joined: 02 Dec 2003
Posts: 1421
Location: figueira da foz - Portugal
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| Posted: Thu Jun 09, 2005 22:03 |
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Rach wrote:
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| in fact,like when someone is dead....the worst part is for the ones who love that person... |
so, u r meaning that to avoid to suffer, u prefer to leave alone your boy/girl friend? isn' it egoistic? |
no! is use the brain! and see what is right!
Drugs is just any addiction like any other thing! I got addiction's (lazyness can be too?no?  ) but they are healthy ones : Music ; FootBall ; Love.(im passionate guy )
I tink what Rach told is very rigth,there is no drug that can give happiness!
that shit is just a fucking habit! i don't want to touch on that piece of shit..but i just tink is a question of ideas and mind! not more than that! the person just got to be strong and let it go,instad of spend the rest of life in the shit!
cause that is the fact..drugs don't give happiness to anyone! just bring more problems and problems...
My opinion is : NO!
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EvoV
Joined: 02 Dec 2003
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Location: figueira da foz - Portugal
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| Posted: Thu Jun 09, 2005 22:05 |
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| FRA wrote: |
Rach wrote:
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| in fact,like when someone is dead....the worst part is for the ones who love that person... |
so, u r meaning that to avoid to suffer, u prefer to leave alone your boy/girl friend? isn' it egoistic? |
no..what she told is to give a gun to he/she kill him/herself 
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Rachmaninova
Joined: 01 May 2004
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Location: Space Bright Lights
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| Posted: Thu Jun 09, 2005 22:15 |
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i mean, if they are not gonna leave it they surely will die,so,better if they do it without making suffer the rest of people for a long time,
if my boyfriend takes drugs i'll be suffering till he die if he doesn't leave it,and i'll feel really bad when he dies...but....with the other way i'll just suffer when he dies in all ways what i wanted to explain with my short english,is that they think they can do whan they want with their lifes,typical..."it's my life and i'll spend it like i want" no? but what they shouldn't do is making other people feel sad/bad for them.
 I can't take decissions for me without think of people who loves me if i also love them,think of that!
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ophone
Joined: 31 May 2005
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| Posted: Fri Jun 10, 2005 06:34 |
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I think I guess why Fra is on the one hand kind to drug addicts and on the other hand so severe with drug addiction. She lives in Lecce. After what I heard from some heroine addicts on deprivation Lecce has one of the most known and well-functioning institutions for heroine addicts in Europe. She might be knowing some former heroine addicts. |
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FRA
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jamirokaki
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| Posted: Fri Jun 10, 2005 11:02 |
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i'm totally disagree with FRA,
i think if jay been for some years on drugs, he should been a total idiot in his behavior. Jya in normal life must be a hard person to live with, but if they where in love must be easier, anyway, i'm pretty sure that was Jay itslef who did Denide broke with him with his behavior
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FRA
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ophone
Joined: 31 May 2005
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| Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2005 09:59 |
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| Lecce has one of the most known and well-functioning institutions for heroine addicts in Europe. |
oh c'monnnnnnn |
But it's true. I even know a guy I met while I was staying in psychiatry who has been sent down to Lecce. |
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VirtuallyInsane
Joined: 10 Jun 2002
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| Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2005 21:19 |
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Basically no... If someone already in my life developed a drug habit I'd be there to offer them support yes but I don't want that kind of lifestyle becoming part of my life. I wouldn't initially get involved with someone who had parts of their life style that conflicted with mine & that principle applies to more than just any drug habits they may have. So if I wouldn't get involved with them for that reason I wouldn't stay with them if they started to screw up their life & mine. Maybe sounds selfish, but thats how I feel... |
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