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CosmicBear
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not a happy bear here. the europe release for the playstation3 has been moved from november 06 to march 07 HMPF! i've been saving my pennies since about two years now and now i have to wait even longer!
i'm a grown kid, so what?   |
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Catman
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| Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 14:15 |
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hehe go bear! xd  |
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MissDee14
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Location: Queens, Ny
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| Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 19:08 |
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im feeling really sad and i dont mean to poor my heart out on here but to be honest i have no one else to talk to....My boyfriend and i broke up 4 months ago after being together for four years and even thought we broke up we still saw eachother and sometimes acted like we were still together...but so much has changed hes not inlove with me anymore but has love for me and things got really bad before they got better...and for the past couple weeks we talk and dont fight but nothings the same i feel like im loosing him...he was my bestfriend in the world and i love him so much it hurts..i would do anything to have back the love we use to share and im scared because as much as i dont wanna say it i dont htink its ever goin to happen...i need him more then i think he realizes..hes truly all i have...and its so hard to just walk away because i have such a strong feeling thats hes my "one" and i met him when i was 14 and i felt it then and im now 19 and its still there..i dont kno what to do..and im so scared to accept this and move on...everyday im miserable i cry so much that it hurts so deep im feel like im never gonna be okay...and i feel like we shared one of those loves that only happen once in a lifetime and i cant give that up...but i feel so distant from him and when i talk to him its like im talkin to someone esle and when i cry to him its like hes just trierd of hearin it...but i know deep down he loves me...ahhhh i wish i could wake up tomorrow and not love him so much...there are even times when i wish i would have never met him id rather have missed out on a love like this then to know whats its like and have it taken away..how do u get over someone when every part of yourself cant?  |
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mr_moon
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Location: Concrete Jungle In UK
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| Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 20:47 |
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You probably dont wanna hear this right now MissDee but, this will make you a better and stronger person. And you will get over it although it probably seems unlike it now |
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deesh
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| Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 21:04 |
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| MissDee14 wrote: |
| hes truly all i have |
he is not all you truly have - you have your damn self and that is more important than any love that comes from anyone else.
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Jamiroquanna
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Joined: 19 Jan 2006
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Location: Hertfordshire, UK
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| Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 21:20 |
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You need to just take some space from him sweetie. Men don't like it when a girl is always on their case. Don't allow yourself to still act like a couple....you're not anymore. This is why you need the distance. If he calls you, tell him politely that you are busy. Make every excuse not to see him, until you are much much stronger!
If he values your friendship, he will come back to you. In the meantime, start doing other things, so that when you do get back to talking again, you can tell him what you have been up to 
Don't put your life on hold. Think of all the things you have going for you. Play love songs, cry, get it all out and then pick yourself up, dust yourself off and start all over again. Relationships are not easy, maintaining frienships takes much more work. If you want to remain friends with this guy, then please take my advice. I understand that it hurts, you just need a little bit of distance from each other right now. Time heals all wounds they say, and they are right!
Stay strong and all will be ok  
After all, you have the Jamily!
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Samiroquai
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Location: North Somerset and Manchester, both in England
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| Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 21:25 |
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| MissDee14 wrote: |
| there are even times when i wish i would have never met him id rather have missed out on a love like this then to know whats its like and have it taken away. |
| Alfred Lord Tennyson wrote: |
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all. (1850) |
Listen to the man! Poetry's not only pretty words, you know. It may not seem like it right now, but you WILL be fine. Don't try to force love, because it won't happen like that. And don't try to force happiness if it's not what you feel, because that doesn't work either. Just try and let it run its course, and don't let it scar you... Love creeps up when you least expect it. I know.
Sam
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mr_moon
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| Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 21:28 |
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| deesh wrote: |
| MissDee14 wrote: |
| hes truly all i have |
he is not all you truly have - you have your damn self and that is more important than any love that comes from anyone else. |
very true, but i kinda understand what she is going through and you are not really thinking like this at the time |
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MissDee14
Joined: 27 Aug 2006
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Location: Queens, Ny
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| Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 23:12 |
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thank you all i honestly cried reading all your comments...you have know idea how much each one of your thoughts meant to me... "Don't try to force love, because it won't happen like that. And don't try to force happiness if it's not what you feel, because that doesn't work either."...that makes so much sense and was very hard to hear but i feel like thats what ive been doing...i keep holding on to how it was but thats not how it is now and i keep trying to force things to work and act like his girlfriend and i need to face it that im not  ...Also thank you Jamiroquanna....and Deesh thank you "he is not all you truly have - you have your damn self and that is more important than any love that comes from anyone else"..that was a true eye opener and probably the most important thing i need to realize...Again i appreciate you all...not to sound corny but it gives me a good feelin to know i can speak from my heart and not be judged and get true advice..you are all amazing  |
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Anjing
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Location: Tokyo, Japan
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| Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 00:38 |
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| CosmicBear wrote: |
not a happy bear here. the europe release for the playstation3 has been moved from november 06 to march 07 HMPF! i've been saving my pennies since about two years now and now i have to wait even longer!
i'm a grown kid, so what? |
bouuuuhhhh  Sony (even if I like very much Castlevania, Megaman and Devil May Cry)
I think Wii, I eat Wii, I drink Wii, I sleep Wii... Cannot wait for the Wii |
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deesh
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| Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 15:13 |
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| mr_moon wrote: |
| deesh wrote: |
| MissDee14 wrote: |
| hes truly all i have |
he is not all you truly have - you have your damn self and that is more important than any love that comes from anyone else. |
very true, but i kinda understand what she is going through and you are not really thinking like this at the time |
i know. but those are just the words that came to me - it's the feminist in me coming out  . i never like to see women feel this way (not so much the whole post, but that someone else is all they have...etc) or men for that matter. it never makes sense or helps instantly, but in time - it will.
speaking from experience, not so much arrogance
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deesh
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Speaking of anniversaries (referring to Ed's 10 years of TWM)...
5 years ago today, Jamiroquai played Little L on the season premier of Live with Regis and Kelly in New York City. Regis cut Jay off in that interview. I remember trying to get tickets to that and couldn't, then later found out that they let anyone outside in because it was the season premier.
5 years ago today, I was on my way to New York to stand in line for hours in the pouring rain to see Jamiroquai at Hammerstein Ballroom. Thunderstorms were looming and it was nuts. I was third in line and there were girls sleeping outside for the O-Town concert the following night that obviously never happened.
5 years ago today was the last time Toby played in America as part of Jamiroquai (as far as I know...correct me if I'm wrong)
5 years ago tomorrow, AFO was released in the USA.
Time flies, flies, flies...
(Back then, digitals weren't in and so this is a cheap throwaway camera that got wet - hence the smoky effect!)
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Supersonic1
Joined: 16 Apr 2004
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Location: Rio Rancho, New Mexico, USA
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| Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 01:27 |
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| Anjing wrote: |
| CosmicBear wrote: |
not a happy bear here. the europe release for the playstation3 has been moved from november 06 to march 07 HMPF! i've been saving my pennies since about two years now and now i have to wait even longer!
i'm a grown kid, so what? |
bouuuuhhhh Sony (even if I like very much Castlevania, Megaman and Devil May Cry)
I think Wii, I eat Wii, I drink Wii, I sleep Wii... Cannot wait for the Wii |
I'm still waiting for the prices on the XBox 360 to drop before I go get it...
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FRA
Jamily Coach & Correspondent
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Location: London don
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CosmicMouse
Jamirotalk mum
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Location: Germany
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| Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 08:48 |
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I know those nights, FRA... stuck at msn, not able to log off...  ... but it is worth it! 
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I feel bad this morning...  ... Mika, my 3-years-old is going to the kindergarten since last week. The first week went very good. No problems for him to say goodbye - I was really surprised that it worked without tears... but now... ... today, he announced that he doesn't want to go there anymore. I stayed 30 minutes there, to enable a smooth start without goodbye tears, and after a while he was really motivated, because one of the kindergarten teachers promised him that he could go with her shopping fruits and some things for the other kids. But when I wanted to go, he cried so much.
I know this from my older son, Marlin when he had his start there. My experience is, the longer you stay there, the harder it gets when you go. So, I knew they will take care of him (very lovely and caring people there!!) so I just went. But you know how hard this is, when you hear your "little baby" cry? 
Thanks god, about 15 minutes later, the kindergarten teacher called me and told that they could calm him and cheer him up meanwhile. Everything ok.
But still.. I know this is going to be some hard weeks now... for both of us. We both have to learn to let go...
Mouse
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