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Knjaz
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I WAS NEAR MURDERED TODAY!!
It happened in school - I was leaning on the railing of the second floor, looking down the atrium at school. Then it happened - somebody tried to shove me over the railing. ON PURPOSE. I know EXACTLY who it is, and I've spread the word about it all. I'm starting to fear for my life, and I certainly am going to refuse to go to school without protection.
What should I do?... Please help me!! I'm starting to fear for my life... |
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Maxud
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| Posted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 00:45 |
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you should fight back for a revolution!
there are more than one way to do that
tell a teacher
or hit that stupid person hard on the nose
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Marina
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| Posted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 01:04 |
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revenge and violenve are not good
make a smarter move and accuse him.. that person has an evil mind and u and other people could be in danger at ur school |
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funkmonkey
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| Posted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 03:38 |
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| marina_diksaitis wrote: |
revenge and violenve are not good
make a smarter move and accuse him.. that person has an evil mind and u and other people could be in danger at ur school |
Exactly right. DO NOT get "protection" or arm yourself in any way as this will cause A LOT more problems in the long run (with school/police/parents etc). You have to outwit this person and, as marina wisely says, be smarter. You do not need brute force to win a battle, your mind is the best weapon you have. This person sounds like a bully and all bullies are cowards. They pick on people who they think cannot stand up for themselves, and can be intimidating if they have a "gang". Do not be afraid because, bullies LOVE to do that to you. Let this person see that you are neither afraid nor intimidated by them and you will find that they leave you alone soon enough. If it gets too much then tell a teacher or your parents. If all else fails be ready to give this person a smack in the mouth and you'll find you get left alone after that, but violence is an absolute last resort.
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Knjaz
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| Posted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 07:38 |
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I don't think this is just a normal bully. This is just too big. This was a clear murder attempt... No bullying or anything alike. We had a parent meeting at school last night, and my teacher had a talk with the parents, mostly on the topic of how somebody tried to kill me, and how.
Now - if I start pointing fingers at school at the person who tried to kill me... Then I'll have a reason to crack a few skulls on the way back from school, just out of pure self-defense. I heard some rumors that those people will try to gang up on me, and I doubt that the teachers can be of any help when I'm not in school. Pure wonder those people didn't knock on my door yet [And I hope they won't, 'cause if they do...].
I don't know if this was a real murder attempt, or just an evil joke, but I slowly am starting to fear for my life more and more. I'm really scared of the following monday. |
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Maxud
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| Posted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 10:35 |
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| marina_diksaitis wrote: |
revenge and violenve are not good
make a smarter move and accuse him.. that person has an evil mind and u and other people could be in danger at ur school |
do you think he wants to kill you????
well in my mind if that happen (i really dont hope so)
i can see that person crying
i dont think he wants to kill you
he wants to provoke you!
and i think he like that you dont fight back.
its just one hard hit on the nose
then youre one time the stronger person
but after that...
you should runaway or show that person everytime again that youre stronger
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jamirokaki
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| Posted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 12:38 |
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hows that?
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Space Clav
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| Posted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 18:09 |
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Ok, I'm not a violent person, far from it. But sometimes violence is the only solution. I can only speak for myself and I'm not suggesting that you should follow my advice. But if this happened to me I would handle it this way:
1. Walk up to this person and ask him "Do you wish me harm?"
2. If he says "yes". Break his nose. One simple head butt. Bang! With blood running down his face he will quickly realise that you are a bad target because messing with you will hurt... badly.
3. If he says "no". You should simply tell him that his action the other day makes you think otherwise. Let him know that if he attempts another stunt like that one you will make him suffer. Let him understand that next time you will be ready and act first. Mess with the bull and you get the horns.
4. If you're being attacked by a "gang". Always take out the one with the biggest mouth. The loudmouth is usually the leader. His cronies will fall back and escape once their "hero" has been taken out of the equation. If that doesn't work, take out the biggest one. Hard, no remorse, no rules. Ears, eyes, Adam's apple, scrotum... take your pick. Just do it fast and ruthless and with maximum force. Be unpredictable. Unpredictable people are dangerous. Cowards like these are afraid of danger and they will find out that you are one guy they should avoid rather than mess with.
5. I know this sounds like I'm advocating violence. Perhaps I am, but only in certain situations. I'd much rather harm someone else than be harmed myself. That's just simple self-preservation.
6. I also talk from personal experience. When I was in my teens some guys made the mistake to attack me in school. Back then I was like nitroglycerine. I made them regret their choice of target right away. I fought with absolutely no rules, with no remorse... They were three and I was one. I smashed one guy's head into a brick wall... very hard... not once, not twice, but three times. I head butted another one and broke his nose. The third one was stupid enough to take a swing at me and I was already high on adrenaline and didn't even feel the punch he gave me. I threw myself at him and brough him to the ground and kept punching his face repeatedly, at least 20 punches. After that they avoided me like the plague. Although they were older than me they were afraid of me. I was rather happy with the outcome. I'd much rather have them think I was a psycho better to be avoided than having to avoid them on a daily basis for the fear of being beaten up. It's quite possibly a reaction like mine would lead into a neverending cycle of revenge. But these guys learnt their lesson instead of trying to get even.
Good luck and stay safe! The best thing you can do is to sort this out peacefully. But it that fails... well, perhaps some of my experiences can give you an idea on what to do in order to get the upper hand.
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funkmonkey
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Yeah, got to agree with the last couple of posts. These people do not "really" want to kill you. They want you to "think" that they do in order to intimidate and frighten you. It would be idiotic of them to do anything to you now as everyone (including teachers and parents) will know who it was. Don't worry about it and don't be frightened. You need to stick up for yourself. Right now you are presenting a "weak" target to them because their intimidation is working and you are scared. You MUST present a "harder" target, unafraid and not intimidated by them.(this does NOT mean getting "protection") They are cowards you need to remember that. It's very, very easy to pick on people that are weaker than you. If they intimidate you again then you need to do something about it. Bear in mind that most of the time violence has a strange way of becoming more violence and more violence. Do not let yourself get into a situation with these people that you cannot control. Change your body language and walk tall with your head held high, stick your chest out a bit, keep your shoulders back and present a "bigger" target. Confide in friends and try not to go many places alone if you can help it for the next few weeks. You will probably find that this all blows over and goes away, but you MUST stop being afraid because every minute you are afraid of them then they have control over you. Violence and fighting are worst outcome of this and you need to be prepared for it mentally as well as phsically. Space Clav is right in saying that if they do attempt to assault you then fight back hard with NO rules as quickly and with as much strength as you have. I would recommend that you maybe start to go to the gym or to a martial arts class etc as this would be good for your confidence.
Good luck mate and I hope we've helped you a little. 
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Maxud
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| Posted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 22:12 |
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"sometimes i think the music is the only hope we have on revolution"
you have to do something again that person
i know situations like that youre into
i hate people who think they are the best and they are able to have slaves
they think that they can touch your dignity
i dont know if you have that basic law in your country:
"the dignity of an human is untouchable"
and if you want to handle right
you have to contact a teacher about that
but dont say aah he tried to hit me down the sairs
you have to say everything - youre frighened of that person that he want to provoke you again in some kind and say all about the other things he has done with you in the last time
thats the only right thing you can do
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