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| If you got a boyfriend/girlfriend that is addicted to drugs,spend all the money with that,ruin the boths love and personal life, would you stay with him/her? |
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PietroChocko
Joined: 02 Oct 2003
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 Posted: Sun Jun 12, 2005 06:47 |
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| VirtuallyInsane wrote: |
I wouldn't initially get involved with someone who had parts of their life style that conflicted with mine & that principle applies to more than just any drug habits they may have. So if I wouldn't get involved with them for that reason I wouldn't stay with them if they started to screw up their life & mine. Maybe sounds selfish, but thats how I feel...  |
that ain't selfish. i'd do the exact same. amen to you. |
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todd_15
Joined: 06 Dec 2004
Posts: 511
Location: byronbay, australia
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| Posted: Sun Jun 12, 2005 09:52 |
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Having a father who did (does) drugs i have known first hand what it is like..
Firstly my mum just ignored it and tried to live with iit....
Then my mum said its the drugs or me and ur children...
And then the decision came....
conclusion.... they have broken up....
Its weird ey like how people choose a stupid drug over there families and everything they spent to raise the family.... You cant sleep with your drugs.... they dont speak to you.....pay ur billz... It must be lonely i rekon..
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mandy
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| Posted: Mon Jun 13, 2005 06:32 |
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To tweak my earlier comments, I wouldnt leave if beforehand I had known there was a drug problem but that would be contingent on the person halting the habit. If the person ended up being violent and drugs exacerbated that I would leave because of the violence. I want kids, and they wont ever be exposed to that, at least not from their parents. I want happy, secure children. But for the other stuff, yeah people tend to srew up our lives time to time but we love them anyway and forgive them. Otherwise, how do we make any relationship work, right. No ones perfect. |
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mr.az
Joined: 01 Sep 2005
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Location: rallying
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| Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2006 05:26 |
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i dont have a clue
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Marina
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Joined: 16 Apr 2006
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| Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2006 05:55 |
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well, if i really care for and love that person, there's no doubt in my answer..
although it never happened to me (yet), one of my best's friends is in rehab, and from the very begining we (his closest friends) were all by his side, helping him and helping us.. because the situation doesnt affect only him, it affects us as a group u know.. we had hard and awful moments due to this situation, but luckily it's been more than a year and a half of treatement and he is ready to finish it. we're all very happy for him, because he is waaay better than at the start. i'm not gonna discuss my opinion about drugs here, but all i can say is that this treatement did so much for him and i'm really glad he did it
anyway, the point is that, without the support of his familly,girl and friends, he wouldnt have been able to go through rehab.. he would have given up |
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