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Knjaz
Joined: 01 Feb 2006
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Official "Bitch at Knjaz" topic...
I guess all of you people here hate me quite a bit, or have something against me, and I really don't know what or why. Seriously, what have I done to you people? If you want me off this place, then okay, I'll go. With people like you around, I've got nothing to leave behind anyway. I found this place to be nice in the beginning, but now some of you over here are just being rude to some other people who include me. If you think I'm mental, that's okay to me. If you think I'm a fool, that's fine with me too, but spitting in my face in the middle of everybody is something I'm not gonna tolerate. I've been doing so much research on stuff you people would never touch, and you treat me like a pig. Throw me in the mud and make me eat feces. Yeah, that's right, that's how everyone should deal with the ugly mama-fucker from Serbia, who wants to do nothing but help. Yeah, go you! |
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Deja
Joined: 05 Jun 2006
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Location: Turin, Italy
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 11:45 |
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Oh my god!
is that real?
anyway maybe I don't count but I've really nothing against you!
Vere
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Knjaz
Joined: 01 Feb 2006
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 11:46 |
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| Deja wrote: |
Oh my god!
is that real?
anyway maybe I don't count but I've really nothing against you!
Vere |
Of course that's real. I wouldn't post this topic for nothing. |
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Deja
Joined: 05 Jun 2006
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 11:51 |
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yey don't get rude to me!! ok is real than I'm sorry...I thoughed you were kidding maybe! sorry!
Vere
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FRA
Jamily Coach & Correspondent
Joined: 07 Aug 2004
Posts: 5477
Location: London don
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 11:55 |
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Im sorry if u feel these awful sensations towards u but, like vere has just said, this is totally new for me; i ve never noticed that someone or something could make u feel bad  . HATE is a big word, i think u r exagerating. This place is always the same nice place u knew before! Stay positive, maybe it's only an impression 
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LLCoolJR
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Joined: 23 Aug 2004
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Location: The Netherlands
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 12:01 |
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My advice would be: contact the persons you are talking about. They are the only ones who can take this feeling away. If not, you should find a way of accepting each other. We can't have a forum where everyone is each others best friend, but we can try to have a place where everybody feels comfortable and safe.
Hope you can sort things out. Good luck!
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Knjaz
Joined: 01 Feb 2006
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Location: Stuck in your computer
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 12:11 |
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| FRA wrote: |
| Im sorry if u feel these awful sensations towards u but, like vere has just said, this is totally new for me; i ve never noticed that someone or something could make u feel bad . HATE is a big word, i think u r exagerating. This place is always the same nice place u knew before! Stay positive, maybe it's only an impression |
I'm didn'tt post this to express my personal feelings. I posted this to see why you people hate me so awfully lot.
First we got Ed, who hates me for no-fucking-reason-I'll-ever-know, then we got Maxud who thinks I'm crack addict (I know he's got nothing against me, but this 'drugs' thing has got to stop), then we got some other people backing up Ed, then we got quite a few people who seem not to appreciate literally anything that comes out all my research, whether hard or not, then we got a few other people who probably didn't even bother to at least look at personal messages I sent them, but rather deleted them immediately, then we got a whole lotta topics I posted that went unnoticed in such a laughable manner, I'm starting to think that most of you here ignore me either because you think that I need professional help, or that I just blabber pointless shit, INTO WHICH A FUCKING LOT OF HARD WORK WENT INTO, or something else. I'm doing my fucking best to contribute any, any info you people can find useful, and this is what I get? Whoa, great, great, great, great, great!! Fucking great! In fact, it makes me feel so nice here, I sometimes have the urge to either throw you out of the window, or myself -- I don't know with who to start. |
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FunkyDonkey
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Joined: 15 Jun 2004
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Location: Milan, Italy
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 12:32 |
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Knjaz I sometimes notice your contributions and think they are cool, you can provide quality here with your analysis and thoughts on some jamiroquai tracks. Mind that we don't have nothing against you, maybe you could have some issues with single users, everybody has maybe but please don't blame the whole jamily for it. Hope you could feel this place more confortable soon.
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CosmicMouse
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Joined: 10 Feb 2002
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Location: Germany
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 12:52 |
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Knjaz, I can understand most of your complaints and i think it's good that you adress the problem. I sometimes notice a bit of that negativity from a few people and I don't like it.
My vision is to keep jamirotalk friendly and cosy, where everyone can feel comfortable and feels respected, like Jeroen said - we cannot be best friends with everyone here, but respect should be possible at least.
I don't know if you are angry about me as well, because I haven't done anything about negative comments towards you by now - actually I have noticed them but as I don't really know your relationship to Maxud and Ed for example I couldn't really rate how serious the situation is, and if those comments were just teasing, and you'd probably take it easy.
But your recent posting shows that you take it personal and that's not good.
I can only speak for myself - I don't have anything against you. Some topics you are starting are interesting for me, so I read and follow them. Some are not interesting for me, so I only follow them for administration reasons. When i am not posting in your threads this does not mean I don't find it interesting, by the way. And you shouldn't take it personal if a topic you opend won't develope into an active discussion. That's the way it is. I appreaciate your research and information you are giving and I follow your threads, even if I am more an observer than a speaker.
The only thing I don't really like is, when you try to fool people with wrong information. Some might find this funny, I just think it is confusing and it might be difficult for people who don't really know you, which info you give is true and which is a fake.
I'd suggest to clear things up with the people you mentioned here. I cannot really help you with this. In my eyes it is absolutely unnecessary to say: "I don't like you." It might be "honest" but those words can hurt (what obviously happend here). So, I'd appreciate if the people would keep back themselfes a bit, now that you know how Knjaz feels about it and show some resepct.
Thanks.
Mouse
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Sandriche
Officer & Jamily Coach
Joined: 07 Oct 2005
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Location: Austraria
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 12:54 |
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i feel sorry if u felt hurted.
the word "hate" is a strong one and shouldn´t be used too fast 
in fact nobody here hates anybody. often things are said online which are not meant like that..which of course shouldn´t be an excuse.
and yes..in a forum never everyone will like everyone..but there is always the possibility of a respectful treatmeant of each other
u sometimes linked me to some of your threads and were maybe disappointed when i didn´t answer...see, not every topic is equal interesting or important for everybody, but that doesn´t mean u are hated.
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Knjaz
Joined: 01 Feb 2006
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 13:16 |
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| CosmicMouse wrote: |
Knjaz, I can understand most of your complaints and i think it's good that you adress the problem. I sometimes notice a bit of that negativity from a few people and I don't like it.
My vision is to keep jamirotalk friendly and cosy, where everyone can feel comfortable and feels respected, like Jeroen said - we cannot be best friends with everyone here, but respect should be possible at least.
I don't know if you are angry about me as well, because I haven't done anything about negative comments towards you by now - actually I have noticed them but as I don't really know your relationship to Maxud and Ed for example I couldn't really rate how serious the situation is, and if those comments were just teasing, and you'd probably take it easy.
But your recent posting shows that you take it personal and that's not good.
I can only speak for myself - I don't have anything against you. Some topics you are starting are interesting for me, so I read and follow them. Some are not interesting for me, so I only follow them for administration reasons. When i am not posting in your threads this does not mean I don't find it interesting, by the way. And you shouldn't take it personal if a topic you opend won't develope into an active discussion. That's the way it is. I appreaciate your research and information you are giving and I follow your threads, even if I am more an observer than a speaker.
The only thing I don't really like is, when you try to fool people with wrong information. Some might find this funny, I just think it is confusing and it might be difficult for people who don't really know you, which info you give is true and which is a fake.
I'd suggest to clear things up with the people you mentioned here. I cannot really help you with this. In my eyes it is absolutely unnecessary to say: "I don't like you." It might be "honest" but those words can hurt (what obviously happend here). So, I'd appreciate if the people would keep back themselfes a bit, now that you know how Knjaz feels about it and show some resepct.
Thanks.
Mouse |
Too much bad and stressful stuff has been happenning lately - how can't I take anything personally? I'm as stressed as a violin string, and I don't like it when people pluck me. It makes me wanna blow up the place I'm in. True, maybe I am taking things a little seriously, but that's how it is. I've lived through a murdering period of two weeks, and still am, and nobody, literally nobody and nothing decided to give me a helping and in the middle of nowhere I'm currently standing in. Sure, it's life, but most people aren't either ignored or fucking attacked by the ones who they want a helping hand from. I remember a topic I posted somewhere a time ago. I got only two replies, both reading 'nutter', but in a sugarcoated manner. Sure, I love it when people read what I write, but I like it even more when they appreciate it all, sincerely. If you can't say anything positive or constructive, don't say anything at all. That's all I've got to say. |
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EDDI
Joined: 25 Sep 2006
Posts: 209
Location: Manchester, England
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 13:53 |
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wtf
i'm so sorry on behalf of everyone i think who has read this. I don't think i have done anything to upset you, but if i have i am so sorry. We as Jamily should look out for one another. I have also noticed the contibutions you have made and they have been really good ones. The comments saying "nutter" are just not on. I hope things are getting better for you and if you ever feel like this agian just say and we can all put a stop to this.
Sorry mate
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EDDI
Joined: 25 Sep 2006
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Location: Manchester, England
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 13:55 |
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p.s i don't hate you at all. I think you make great contributions and a great person |
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deesh
Joined: 23 Feb 2002
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 14:20 |
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Knjaz -
I'm sorry you feel as if people hate you. I don't think anyone does. I don't know you really to hate you. Sometimes people don't reply to topics because the topic doesn't interest them or they don't have time. Many of us start topics on there that no one responds to. I wouldn't take it personal.
You are dealing with people here who like to talk, debate, etc...
Some of your topics may come across strong or contain misinformation or false assumptions about things - so don't get upset if someone corrects you about it. And don't take it as an attack - it's hard to read sincerity on a computer screen.
I remember when your teacher passed away and you got support from many people in the Jamily. Look at the positives...we all don't hate you and gave you a helping hand and support. If you need help with something, then let us know what we can do or how we can help. If we can - we will. Or...I will. But if you don't speak up on what you need a helping hand with, how are we supposed to know?
I think we all contribute to this community in different ways. And...it is the internet - try not to get yourself so upset over it.
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Sandriche
Officer & Jamily Coach
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Location: Austraria
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 14:41 |
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u hit the nail deesh
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